Hi, my name is Jenn.
We can never truly know when or how death will touch our lives, and talking about it is often difficult. People may feel unsure of what to say, become stuck, or avoid the subject entirely. But when we shy away from these important conversations, we lose the opportunity to make choices that reflect our own wishes. I believe everyone deserves to have their end-of-life preferences known and respected. That’s why I’m passionate about starting honest, early conversations about end-of-life planning.
I help individuals and their loved one’s approach death in a real, meaningful way, creating space for understanding and acceptance. As someone who identifies as 'spiritual, not religious,' my core values center on honoring and advocating for choice at the end of life. I encourage people to break free from the restrictions and stigmas that often surround death, empowering them to embrace their unique preferences and individuality as they approach life’s final chapter.
When a terminal or life-limiting illness disrupts life, it can feel overwhelming. Grief may cloud your mind, and suddenly, a wave of questions arises: Where do I begin? Who should I contact? How much time is left? Is this really happening?
Take a moment... Breathe.
There are resources available, and part of my role is to present them to you and manage the logistics, so you can focus on what truly matters. I’m here to create a space where you can spend meaningful time with yourself, your loved ones, and perhaps a higher power, allowing you to pass in a way that feels authentic to who you are.
By hiring a doula, you gain an advocate—someone who will help define and record your quality-of-life standards, protect you from being overwhelmed by systems, and ensure you are honored as an individual, not just seen as a patient or another sick or aging body.
You are a conscious individual with a life well-lived, and I am here to support you and your loved ones as you near the end of this journey.
My Story
My journey to becoming a death doula began during a profoundly personal experience—helping my mother navigate her battle with stage 4 lung cancer. The hospital became a world filled with sterile walls and relentless beeping machines, a stark contrast to the emotional turmoil that engulfed our family. I quickly discovered how difficult it was to find the right resources to support families facing this challenging time. Each day felt like a labyrinth; I often found myself lost and unsure of what questions to ask the doctors and medical staff. It seemed that the focus was predominantly on prolonging her life, rather than offering the comfort and dignity that come from non-life-extending services.
As I sat by her side, holding her hand, I wasn't alone in this struggle. I witnessed countless families—like zombies, in a state of confusion—wandering the hallways, their faces a mirror of my own despair. We were all searching for answers, for solace, for a way to understand this painful process. It became very clear that there was a significant gap between the hospital's objective of keeping patients alive and the essential need for quality of life considerations during the final phase of life.
In those intimate moments with my mother, I realized that the dying process is not merely a medical event; it is a profoundly human experience filled with love, fear, and everything in between. Unfortunately, our society often lacks the education and support necessary for both the dying and their families as they navigate this journey. This insight drove me to research how we could improve the dying experience because it seemed that, as a whole, we are not handling death well. The stories of those lost in the system fueled my passion to ensure that no one feels alone or unsupported in their final days.
Through this exploration, I found my calling as a death doula. I am dedicated to bridging that gap, providing compassionate support and guidance to individuals and families as they navigate this important life transition. My mission is to ensure that every person experiences the end of life with the dignity, comfort, and love they deserve. I strive to create a safe space where families can express their fears, share their stories, and embrace the reality of death as a natural part of life—a process to be honored rather than feared.