Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know if hiring a death doula is right for me or my loved one?

"A death doula is a good choice for anyone looking to navigate end-of-life care with additional emotional, spiritual, and practical support. If you or your loved one value having a personalized experience that prioritizes dignity, comfort, and individual wishes, a death doula can offer significant guidance."

When should I consider reaching out to a death doula?

"Many people reach out to a death doula when they or a loved one are approaching the final stages of life. However, some people choose to engage a doula earlier, even in the planning stages, to explore options and make informed choices about end-of-life care well in advance."

What can a death doula provide that hospice or medical care may not?

"While hospice and medical teams focus on physical and medical needs, a death doula provides holistic support for emotional, spiritual, and practical concerns. I work alongside healthcare providers to create a comprehensive, compassionate experience that reflects the client’s values and preferences."

Can a death doula support my family after I pass?

"Yes, I can provide bereavement support, helping family members navigate the early stages of grief and offering guidance and comfort as they process their loss."

Will my family need to do anything to prepare for your involvement?

"Not at all. I work with you and your family in whatever way feels most comfortable. We’ll discuss your wishes and any specific areas where you’d like support, so my involvement can be as seamless and supportive as possible."

How does a death doula support people who may be reluctant to discuss death?

"Discussing death can be challenging, and I’m here to create a safe, compassionate space for those conversations to happen naturally. I approach these discussions with sensitivity and respect, supporting clients at their own pace to help them feel more comfortable and empowered."

Do death doulas work with people who aren’t religious?

"Yes. My approach is ‘spiritual but not religious,’ meaning I honor each person’s individual beliefs, whether religious, spiritual, or secular. My role is to support you in the way that feels most meaningful to you."

Is a death doula only for the elderly, or do you work with younger clients as well?

"I support individuals of all ages. People of any age who are approaching end of life, facing serious illness, or who simply want to plan with intention can benefit from a death doula’s guidance."

How is your role different from that of a grief counselor or therapist?

"While a grief counselor or therapist provides clinical emotional support, a death doula offers non-clinical, holistic support focused on the end-of-life experience. I offer presence, comfort, and practical help, often staying with clients through the transition and being available to families during the immediate time after."